Young men are angry young men because they have no idea about the the mechanics of the female instinct. How it works, why and what to do about it.
Your mother was right.
Your mother is right.
Because she is your mother ? Yes.
Because she is a mother? Yes.
Because she is a woman? Yes.
Because she is smart and successful and fashionable and in a loving relationship, creative and spontaneous and hilarious, sociable and admired?
Well, I don’t know your mother. Still I hope she embodies many of these qualities listed above. Any combination of these traits would help to generate ongoing satisfaction and fulfillment for her and those in her life.
The amazing challenge of motherhood tugs on the ancient history of care that have kept us alive for millennia. Many a young mother is overwhelmed with the weight of responsibility that their tiny bundle of joy represents. They have no idea what to do or what their infant needs.
Yet with the guidance of experienced mothers, a new mother can grasp the thread of maternal wisdom and connect with the natural intuition of motherhood.
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Under the influence of this connection a woman finds a kaleidoscopic fountain of love powering an agility of ability to be the source of happiness and health for her child.
The instinct lives in the core of the moment. And we are invited every moment to accompany the instinct; to get instinctual. The instinct has enough potency and range to radiate beyond the core. Whether at the core or in the ripple effect of the instinct, it’s message is always valid, true and available. So it is up to our discipline and desire to follow it, trust it as opposed to second guessing.
So where we sit now is that men are alienated from their instinct? Their sensitivities have been institutionally diminished and tuned to sex, money, and lame ‘man caving’ habits.
As a result when a woman, married or not, a mother or not, professional or not insists on adhering to the connection with her instinct – men balk! Men don’t get it. But they do get angry. And violent.
Why? He pleads.
Explain it to me! He yells.
What am I missing?! He demands exasperated.
Damn good questions.
Man! You are missing a connection with your instinct. Make that connection and you can have a shared understanding of the situation with your spouse.
The learning is that women and men will maintain their connection with their instinct using complimentary techniques. Women through the management of the three aspects of The Female Friction.
Men will do it by elevating their various expressions of the famous man cave.