Love and be loved = Lable
Seek something to love in the other person and Offer them something to love.
Make the higher more important than the lower – as a first step look for solidarity-in- love with others. If they can’t locate their higher self then be their external resource for them to generate self love. Think about it – now – and again.
Ego love. Love the service that your ego provides to your higher development life. The ego level of you needs approval and attention to be included and feel important. So you seek people that give you all those things. But not at the expense of your ability to grow. Remember Your Best Ego is the foundation for your Higher Soul.