The wedding is just one day. Vows, wedding dress, toasts, food, speeches, slideshow, dancing, relatives, a childhood friend, a colleague.
The actual marriage is when we marry ourselves with our spouse the rest of our marriage. Without being in any way unfaithful, a man actually marries varied forces on a constant basis to offer his wife on a constant basis for her to use as needed.
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How does he marry forces?
Using his vibrant power –
– using his capabilities to help, to lead and get satisfaction.
A man loves to accompany others in their success and be accompanied in theirs.
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What does he need to do this?:
A man needs a direction to shine his light as a man, a husband.
A man needs a higher purpose to rise above daily whims and challenges.
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What is a man’s reality from which to do all this?
It is a mans challenge to combine his abilities and responsibilities in a manner that he can learn from the experience and for the experience to be beneficial for everyone impacted.
Where does he find the internal leverage to receive his reality and improve it in some small way ?
A man is emotionally agile with ready resources that enable him to respond to life with spontaneity not violence.
Said another way:
A man is responsible to keep the embers hot in the fire for life through admiration of others, curiosity and resilience.
Taken to another level –
Men need to foster their intrinsic male sensitivity. This is done by marrying this man-fire with their answer to the urge to maintain and strengthen their energetic connections with the higher forces of growth.
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