The Solidarity of Self Love

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When you wake up and go to the bathroom you many not like what you see  in the mirror.   Those greenish purple bags under your eyes and wrinkles appearing or deepening.  Let’s not even start with that emerging belly …

If you experience yourself at an elevated level then you will love yourself.    Is that because you are such a great person?  Maybe:)  But really that is the normal sensation when we find ourselves in an elevated state of energy.   It has to do with less judgement and more understanding in the higher levels of the planet’s energy.

The Soul is always guiding us into growing and learning; positive and willing.  Creating routines and rituals that accompany your Soul is an effective and sustainable way to elevate your energy.  Being of sincere service to others is a rewarding way to elevate.  Reflecting on the grace and reliability of planet Earth can generate refined appreciation.
It is when we limit ourselves to daily level energy that love is challenged.
Insisting that our knowledge and love come from daily, ego friendly resources means we are fluent in: guilt and blame, judgement and doubts, arrogance and bitterness separated by random occurrences of compassion, appreciation, patience and possibly humility.

Knowing yourself at your Higher Soul level is to grasp that you are a congress of body, mind, Soul and Spirit.   Acting through any one of these agents of growth we can satisfy many development urges on our trajectory of energy elevation.

Find others on this trajectory.  Seek this solidarity of Self Love where others understand that what we give in appreciation or service to life we receive manifold in peace and perceptions.
Insist on your participation in this League of Souls who accept the task of elevating one’s energy level.
Practice Self Love in big and small ways. Learn what self love looks like in the short and long term. Apply the impact of self love to: health, business, parenting, marriage…
What is self love at different levels of energy and different stages of life?

To be clear the Self Love being talked about the appreciation for one as a person/man/woman.  This is Self Love as a foundation for growth in the subsequent stages of life.  A good reference to get a grasp on this is The Wild Coach post:

Your Best Ego



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When we embody Self Love we realize each person is to arrive at it in their own way of positive elevation through the permutations of: love, knowledge and self knowledge.  So we are in solidarity with their development journey.  We can learn from their unique persuasions of Self Love in the challenges of daily life.

Find the folks who are insistent on taking responsibility for their Self Love while at the same time sharing the struggle and the fruits.  As always you can look to nature – to the forest – for examples of the Solidarity of Self Love in action.  A reality where one loves themselves but not at the expense of their own growth or participating with others.


You have no equal

You are a unique universal event



What Is True because Of You?


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There was an episode of the 70’s hit show Happy Days with The Fonz (Henry Winkler) and Richie Cunningham (Ron Howard) when Richie’s dad explains to his mom the meaning of a message he wrote when they were courting (as they did in those days).  Richie’s dad wrote in pebbles outside his girlfriend soon-to-be-wife’s window on the ground: an eye and a heart which were all clearly understood.  Obviously what follows is the letter ‘U’ right?  But what Richie’s dad drew was some sort of animal.  He explained it was a ewe – a female sheep – pronounced like you.

So everyone has their definition of you, their expression of you, their application in life of you.

What is true because of you?

Your existence is true because since you are breathing there is another human man or woman in the planet. You have/had parents and needs for the ego and psychology going through stages of life.  All of this is the automatic truth of you being alive. Nothing wrong with it but it is also universally true of everyone else alive or dead.  This is fate.  Bound to happen.  Bound here can be understood in both senses: 1. it was almost inevitable and 2. tethered, tied up.  Meaning freedom was not offered or challenged in the process.

On the other hand there is a way you can find your freedom.  Your freedom is not cultural freedom.  Someone like Nelson Mandela showed us that.  He was held captive many years at a social level but decided to embrace his innate freedom at a higher mental level.  While in prison for 28 years he studied and pursued perception that would allow him to demand respect for his race from a human perspective.  The results were extremely positive for millions of people.

Your mental freedom works the same way.  By its very nature when you have the freedom of higher human faculty it radiates a benefit into the world because you: focus on what you can make possible; Highlight what works;  Love the experience of belief; Struggle for raising awareness;  Embrace the moments of sincere community whether they be lifelong or passing through compassion, patience, emotional agility, spontaneity…

What is true because of you?:  enhancement for the planet and her higher domains.
There are dot com domains that populate the internet.   And then there are higher domains that live on a network of energy that are populated by the higher soul of people like me and you who figure out a way to elevate up the scale of energy.
One mode of elevation is to follow through on your elevated emotion.
Your elevated emotion is what you want for the planet or for your community. 

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What is true because of your higher soul resonance?  Is it true the planet can engage in you higher human faculty that is clear and clean?  Clear in wanting to understand the purposes of human and Earth. Clean in how it prepares and communicates and upholds the integrity of those purposes.


What is true because of you?


When you are needed be ready with what they need.


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1. When they need direction use your sense of purpose to make your life interesting.

2.  When they need to establish standards offer them ideas of where to put their energy.

3. When they need to prioritize show them how to measure the relevance of things.

4. When they lack self love show them a person who radiates self knowledge.

5 .When they have initiative show them how not to fill it – let it be filled.

6. When they are searching for connection help them handle success and failure.

7. When they are decisive find out their beliefs.